Changes In Latitudes, Changes In Attitudes – JImmy Buffett

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Interesting.! You see it is all about knowledge, learning, experience and perspective..
If you open your mind, expand your experiences, lose deep fears and grow you will .. Accept your place, in life and that it is mobile and fluid..
Age is just a number, but it comes with great experience, both good and bad.. Each experience should teach and train us for the next growth phase.
Moving through life, we gather momentum, sometimes we regress as we need to learn something we missed, but that regression should only be temporary.. If you stay there you will suffer great loss and end up stuck in a world you don’t belong anymore. . Where’s the fun in that?
It’s Like popping back to an old school, or home, to connect to a memory, or back to the shops because you forgot an item.. Addicts talk about going back to a point before the addictions took hold and retrace steps.. It manifests in immaturity and becoming stuck, if you don’t move forward it can lead back to addiction, in fact it becomes the addiction to old patterns and all you think you missed..
If you have dependents, it works both ways you should ebb and flow together..
Their is never a need, to carry burdens alone.. Truth. authenticity and self honesty brings with it great rewards for you and others snd great experience and learning..
Allow bad and good feelings to wash in and out. Never cling to the bad ones like an old friend, feel them and let them move on.. The good ones should be cherished and shared. Dont hold them either because their are many other good ones waiting to come in and for you to feel..
Let go of bad behaviour, but be bold as long as it is not hurting anyone.. Happiness is not built on the unhappiness of others or pain you cause..
True happiness is inside you not fullfillment of fleeting superficial desires. You only need to find the light in your soul and shine bright. Then you will attract all you desire..
The darkness, the holding on to grumpy grrss can become your personality and people will love you anyway, as they will see the spark inside, the real you.. It’s not that they love this part of you, they are aware of the other side and the pain you are in, which maybe you dont even see or cover with addiction and denial.. Patterns of behaviour.
So you really don’t need to keep it up, it"s just a pattern. Of course if you don’t want to walk your multicolured path thats ok too.. But dont hurt or blame others, for the turn you took
It is not who you are.. You arr many things.. Many colours..
Why waste your life hiding in the dark, lashing out or making hurtful decisions? Get out in the sun, expand your latitude and you will change your attitude..
Break patterns #💖NK