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Or should it? Sometimes you need to simply understand that they already know, they just dont want to hear it again because they have no intention of facing it.. They may attack or blame you and possibly ignore you, till you stop snd leave them.. Then complain You left them as an excuse not to face themselves and find many distractions and people to back that up in their head.. So simply let them be….its not worth your peace to change how someone else treats You. Unjustified as it may be.. Your peace and mental health is simply more important.. They are taking care of themselves, they are not interested in how it impacts You or destroys your life, they only see themselves, so should You.
You can only hope their moral compass will find its direction and they will follow the right road in the end and do right by everyone..
Keep the faith in them to do right, but move on….hard as it is, Love Yourself. Hope they will have the same faith in themselves, as You have for them.. Their decisions should not impact you so much they become your problem. The thing about problems is we have to figure out our own, if you allow others problems to impact You, You cannot ever find a solution to Your pain because it came from anothers suffering and now you have transmuted it into Yours.. Try to free yourself. It is not easy as it means a big decision to simply let go and not help.. This is the best you can do for everyone❤