You cant always behave like you please and say" its just me" “too bad if you dont like it ”.
If you behave badly, it is you behaving badly and hurting other people.
I should know, I have no filter 😇🙄.i always.come from a good place but may end up being critical in a hard way, if I am not heard.
Be decent, be kind , be you and learn to take criticism , you might learn something about yourself . Including patience
Don’t ever change who you are, or assume anyone is judging you or trying to change you.
No one has that power or even knows how….but you might need to change how you behave or react to circumstances. Most people that feel judged, have likely behaved in a cruel , selfish way that has a profound effect on others. Or challenged beliefs.
If you have a moral compass , it is likely you are judging your own actions, as you know what you have done and choose to externalise it.
You have learned a pattern that keeps you dealing with life with the tools bestowed upon you , by parents, peer groups ,friends, family , society, education, fears, insecurities and experiences that you perceive, get you out of trouble.
If you feel judged for who you are , you are clearly not comfortable with yourself or what you have done, or how you have treated.others and need to self love.
I find those who shout “i dont need your approval “are the ones usually craving it most. As a mirror is held in front of them, forcing them to see themselves. Hold that gaze
They are right !they dont need your approval , they need to approve only of themselves and their actions.
If they can look in the mirror and be proud of who they are, are decent human beings who make mistakes, but are assured enough to make up for them and learn from them , that is all that can be asked of them.
Because, we are all human and we all judge ourselves on our standards and how we wish to be treated.
Be your quirky self , it is what makes you adoreable
It doesn’t make you weak it makes you , more you….. you are different , we are all different . We are all part of the human jigsaw , that makes the World .
Be the kind of person that you can be proud of…. do whats right and if you must suffer for making others suffer, face the consequences of your actions.
Allow the hurt you caused to flow through you and out in kindness and honesty.
Only then will the judgement stop….and you will find peace and bestow it upon the ones who you wronged and believe judged You . Maybe you will stop judging others, because assuming you are being judged is a judgement on others and their beliefs and morality.
Judgememt is very interesting as it is based 100 percent on our own perceptions. No one is judging You, but yourself…Seek your own approval. #nk #aponderance
It’s a good thing to be different #findurfilter #boundaries. #respecturself